would you rather know the truth and get hurt or would you rather being cheated and be happy?

this has never been an definite answer before. because when one gets hurt, one would rather not know anything but when one gets cheated, one would rather know the truth.

it has also became quite habitual that i don't deliberately find out the truth. what do you gain from knowing more? sometimes i do feel stupid for thinking this way. but being too smart won't lead to happiness. and therefore i tend to feign ignorance even when i know the truth. and to do that, i normally turn to excuses instead of finding out. then again, not many people are able to do it.

you can only accept the kind of society you live in. this is want you have then accept it and live with it. don't blame anyone or take things for granted. because no matter how you blame the person, you cannot change things. but when you take things for granted, you'll eventually lose it. this is life. life is practical, life is realistic.
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